The biggest problem as a result of all this craziness is that I am under a lifting restriction for 6 weeks. Which means that I can't lift anything heavier than Sam until mid-November. This is a serious problem because Viv wants to be carried around all the time, and sometimes she needs to get in and out of her crib. Or get her diaper changed. Or she has to be rescued from nearly falling down the stairs. Or she bites her tongue and bleeds all over. I can drive now that I'm mostly off my narcotics, but I can't get her in or out of the car. Basically, I need someone around all the time in case poor Viv needs something. Plus I am still moving pretty slowly and have basically just been taking care of Sam but haven't managed to make meals or clean the house or do much taking care of the girls.
Two days before Rob's mom was scheduled to leave, we sat down to figure out how much help we would need and who we could ask. I was freaking out a little at the prospect of being alone all day with all 3 kids. Finally the answer hit us--I could go to Utah and stay with Rob's family until mid-November. (My mom works so staying with my fam wouldn't help me during the day....) And, Rob's family generously agreed to take me and the kids in. So after 2 days of frantic packing, my brave MIL and I got on a plane with the 3 kids, 4 diaper bags, 2 car seats, 2 extra carryons, 1 big stroller, and lots of help from the guy pushing me in the wheelchair. We actually wheeled a luggage cart ONTO the airplane. I've never seen anyone do that before :) It was a long, tiring day, but we made it safe and sound! It will be hard to be away from Rob and from home for so long, but it felt like the right decision, and a huge relief. So if you're in UT and feel like lunch at Cafe Rio, I'm available any time! But you might have to help me get the kids out of the car :)
Friday, October 24, 2008
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What a relief! I was seriously scared for you. I'm so glad it's working out and you have help. Have fun in UT!
Yay, you made it! Good luck with everything these next few weeks. So jealous you get to have the real Cafe Rio, think of us everytime you go!
I'm glad you have family to help you! We might be there for Thanksgiving, will you still be there?!
I'm escaping to UT too so that someone can tend to my child while I tend to myself :). I'm so glad that you're being taken care of....and when you get back I would love to help if I can!
I am glad that your family is there to help you. I hope that all goes well and we will miss you here! Get as much rest as you can so you can recover.
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Oh, Julie! I am so glad that you guys worked tings out. Family is by far the best. Good Luck! Sleep lots and enjoy a little time to your self. We'll miss you but know you're in good hands.
Keep us posted :)
Hey! I'd love to get together and visit and get some Cafe Rio! :)
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